Apparently Madonna wants to adopt another child from Africa, and here's why I don't care.

Well, “don’t care” is harsh. I care about the welfare of the child she will bring into her family, but I don’t care about any of the controversy.

I am, however, excited as a schoolgirl that adoption is getting so much attention in the media. People are talking about it. People are thinking about it. It is mainstream! These are all good things.

What’s next?

We now need more celebrities to start talking about having done IVF. Having used donor eggs or donor sperm to conceive. Having used a surrogate. There are so many non-“traditional” ways of bringing kids into the world and into your family and they all need more attention.

Can you imagine a day when all of these methods are commonplace? Well, they are commonplace now – but do we really talk about them? Nope.

Apparently we are a society obsessed with celebrities. So let’s use that! We can get them to do public service announcements for anti-smoking campaigns. Why can’t they talk about the way the built their family?

Use your voice like we do

Bloggers do this every day, but most of us don’t have the reach of your average movie or TV star. Celebrities have great access to the media, so I want them to use it. Go ahead, make crappy movies that go straight to video, but if you live your life out loud I will respect you for it.

So come on celebrities. Talk. Want to go on Oprah to do it? Fine, whatever it takes. But let some of your “secrets” out and I’ll respect you for it.

Who’s with me?

(Originally posted on the Silicon Valley Moms Blog.)


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5 responses to “Apparently Madonna wants to adopt another child from Africa, and here's why I don't care.”

  1. MammaLoves Avatar

    I love how once a celebrity admits to something then it’s okay for the rest of us.

    UGH!! The celebritiness!!

  2. Plain Jane Mom Avatar

    Yeah, so let’s make that celebriworship work for us!

  3. SuburbanOblivion Avatar

    I think they go through the same experiences we all do, but its not ok for them to talk about it the way we do. I mean lets face it, if you know Julia Roberts uses the same hair spray, face cream and tampons you do, she becomes just another person who happens to work in movies. The awe factor is gone, so to speak. So I think there is a pressure for most of them NOT to talk about these things, making it harder for US to talk about them. Viscous cycle it is.

  4. Tiana Avatar

    Cute Blog! You officially have a new reader!

  5. PunditMom Avatar

    I’m with you, PJM. While I don’t care for the way People magazine and others sensationalize adoption like it’s a car crash we should slow down to look at, I hope it gets the attention of those who may really consider it as a way to add to their families. As an adoptive mom, it’s an issue that’s important to me, too.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joanne-bamberger/why-is-this-a-headline_b_44018.html

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